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School-to-Work is for All Youth

As a parent of a 24 year old with a disability I was anxious for my son to be part of the community and experiencing career goals as a part of his school day. For him, the classroom was not a good learning environment. He was an experiential learner - a hands on learner. It was also important for him to learn in the context of the "real" environment.

As the parent of three additional teens and adults I also saw the value of learning reading, math, science, and other academics while on the job or in the real environment.

I think that the school-to-work initiative has the potential to provide ALL youth and adults with opportunities to move outside the traditional classroom and find success in real life through hands-on experiences.

We Are Really More Alike...

We are really more alike than we are different. Each child has unique strengths, gifts, and talents. Each child also has areas they are not as strong in. However, ALL children and youth need guidance, support, and help with finding out what they are good at, what they are interested in, and what they need help with. Whether a young person has a disability or not, is not the real issue. Whether we treat all young people equally, provide equal opportunity, and provide equal access to all options for planning their future, is the issue.

 

Fears of a Parent...

As an advocate for youth with all disabilities, I often find that the school classroom schedules and activities leave many kids feeling inadequate and unsuccessful. The dropout rate and lack of self-esteem, especially for those with hidden disabilities (learning disabilities and emotional/behavioral disabilities) is very high. Yet those same teens can be very successful in the work place, really understand the relevance of academics, and significantly increase their skills given the right opportunities. We can learn valuable lessons from the experiences that have been provided for students with disabilities for many years - those experiences, such as an Individual Education Plan for each student and work experience outside the classroom, have proven to have great benefits.

Another fear I have as a parent, which is most likely a fear for all parents, is the fear of vulnerability of my children. Many times for kids with disabilities, there is more risk of people taking advantage of them. Even if they aren't at risk for abuse, there may be risk for teasing and taunting and involvement with persons that may put them at risk. For my son, involvement in the community and job meant that he had to travel on the bus alone. He would often talk about how cruel people were and how afraid he was when he was traveling. The school building is a safe and protected environment. Lucky for me, I had a friend who would ask me "Isn't Christian going to live in the community when he is out of school?"

Many parents may have fears about their children's safety and vulnerability when participating in community experiences. For me, the quality of my son's life had to be a major consideration equal to or more important than the fears and nightmares.

Lifework Plans for ALL Youth

Wouldn't it be great to have individual education planning meetings for ALL youth? Minnesota now has legislation on Lifework Plans for ALL students. A school may develop lifework plans for all of their students to help students and families plan for the student's future. There is no age limit on starting a lifework plan, which means we could begin this plan in elementary school and it could follow the student throughout their school career. Many of the concepts and strategies used in an individual education planning meeting for students with disabilities, can easily be used with ALL youth.

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